Thursday, April 7, 2011

Reasons Why A Male Spouse Gets Into An Affair With Another Woman

By Melinda J. Sims


What could be more blissful than a wedding day? The look of your parents while putting on that white wedding dress and the relative's gratefulness of receiving an invitation are just one of those things you can never ever forget. All these wonderful memories lingering each day, but a sudden change from the gaze of your husband made you feel so empty and wondering.

What exactly is there to do when marriage is under turmoil?

Psychologist says that when a man is unsatisfied with his sexual life, he turns his back and find another place to pacify his sexual need. Men's uses defense mechanism and blame his wife for not being "good enough in bed"

A married man says that he never really imagined himself having sex with other women after his marriage to his love of his life, until such time when he realizes that having sex with his wife seem to be dull.

The first few months until the first anniversary seem so ideal. As if both of them are having so much dreams for the future. Man has said too many times, according to research that even if he is so in love with his wife, he still has this sexual fantasies with other women.

There are cases wherein the husband still sees his wife as his ultimate partner but at the same time, his sexual fantasies are not met due to cultural restrictions.

The lack of honest and straightforward communication between husband and wife can be blamed for the breakdown of the relationship. The husband may complain about their sex life but still agrees and push himself to believe that it is good, nothing is wrong and everything is perfect.

Open communication without inhibitions to talk about anything especially sex is the key to a happy marriage life. A big teasing smile early in the morning would zing up your sexual life.




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