Monday, April 25, 2011

Dating Dutch

By Owen Jones.


Going Dutch means that both daters pay for themselves when they go out on a date. This way of dating is often the best kind, especially when both parties are unfamiliar to each other, independent, or just good friends, because then neither person ends up feeling beholden to the other. Lots of people like to go Dutch because they are not comfortable with someone else paying for them. This is common with women who are broadminded or independent in their philosophy or who just don't like to be a financial burden to anyone.

Therefore, it is also common if finances are low for both parties. Both people will divide the expenses of dinner and any other activities selected to do on the date. Another aspect of Dating Dutch Style is that the daters might also decide to meet at the locality by separate taxi or drive themselves so that the other person is not liable for their transportation.

Dating Dutch Style can create an extremely informal atmosphere, which many people are pleased with when a relationship is new. After all, in these conditions no one is incumbent on anyone and each can come or go as they like if the date turns sour.

Some people just are not at ease with someone else paying for anything for them until they get to know them more thoroughly. In addition, they don?t want to think as if they owe them for anything later.

Dating Dutch Style allows the date to go out in a relaxed manner without the sense of ?owing? anyone anything. In addition, many women understand the costs related with dating and don?t believe it is fair that the man should pay for everything, especially if they go to an expensive restaurant and do something even more posh later.

Going Dutch is common for people who are not comfortable with someone else paying for them. There are many generous and self-reliant women who are very proud and who prefer to pay their own way too. This generates a comfortable atmosphere because no one feels like they are indebted to anyone for anything later.




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