Thursday, February 10, 2011

Proven Strategies To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

By John Shaw


Getting back into your ex's graces isn't simple. It is not impossible though. So, prepare yourself to get the love of your life back. Do not sit and wait for things to unfold on their own. You need to do something to get your life back on track!

Don't lose hope no matter what. Like plants, your lost love must grow roots. You need to nurture your relationship. Never ever dig and see if the seeds underground are actually trying to grow into the plant that you hope it to be. Just know it will grow.

Although your ex girlfriend may not display it, she may quite well think of you this very minute. You may not believe it, but it's true nevertheless. She is thinking about you just the way you are thinking about her. You might not think so because she seems distant. However, like most things, they are mainly noticed when they are gone. It is really unlikely your girlfriend just forgot about you. It takes time to forget about someone. Sometimes when people are hurt, they say many things they do not actually mean.

Here are some top techniques you can do to get your ex back:

1) Let her know you want her back You need to let it show in the event you want her back. Women like it if men show their love to them. Hiding your true feelings will not do you any good, as women generally speaking have a six sense. Actually they are really great at reading body language and they'll see right through you. They say love conquers all. No need to feel afraid. You should show that you still care for her. If you can think of any good or positive ideas, try it. There is nobody like her in this world. You made a mistake but now you really know what you want. You want her back into your loving arms.

2) Tell her you love her with all your heart Sometimes when men want to ask a girl something, they do it in a way that makes you think that they would be fine if the answer is no. Often times they put up a wall either because of their ego or fear. For some men, it could be they're shy.

3) Take advantage of your history with each other Although you and your ex are no longer together, just like any other relationship, you must have had some great memories together. Focus on those good times. It would be extremely wise of you to use the memories to your benefit.

4) Make sure you look your best when you meet your ex Looking your best will attract your ex sexually. Dress sexy and smell good. Nobody thinks sexually about smelly people, right?

5) Be a good friend When your ex talks, listen and communicate with her effectively. Do not think about something else when you are talking. Maintain your focus. She needs you to be there for her. Don't let her down, especially not now. That's what good friends do.

6) You must look like you know what you're doing Women love confident guys. Have a game plan. Know what you are doing. She will respond to it right away. You must practice until the confidence is real.

Here are some ideas how you can loosen up before meeting your ex girlfriend:

1) Visit a day spa There's no better place to relax than the day spa. Trust me, I know. Why not unwind here? Many guys have reported day spas being the best place to unwind when stressed out.

Just relax and leave all your troubles behind. Take advantage of everything they have to offer there: massage, mud bath, the whole package.

2) Visit the gym Exercise gives you endorphins which make you feel good. Do it on a regular basis.

3) Eat well Instead of eating junk food, try paying more attention to your diet and replace them with nutritional food.

What you need to know is that women love being pampered and loved. Just pamper and love your ex.

Remind your ex that you really are that perfect mate that she is looking for. You can even pay someone to be interested in you while you are sitting with your ex... This will make her interested in you as she or he sees other people becoming interested in you first. Make sure both of you have fun. She might rethink the past and actually ask you to get back with you. You need to act natural and be the same guy she fell for in the first place.




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