Thursday, February 17, 2011

Is He a Player? - Signs That He's Cheating

By Suzy Weiss


Are you dating someone right now who seems to be too good to be true? The next thing you should ask yourself is "is he a player?" You're not exactly being cynical. It's just normal and realistic for a single woman over forty to be cautious when dating men. There are tons of deceiving men out there who seem to pose no harm. But you'll be surprised to discover one day that he's a cheater. It is always better to be ahead and know if he is a player.

Some women's minds are clouded by these players' smooth style. Even if you start doubting them, they still can get away with it. They're chronic cheaters and have done this before. They have played the game over and over, and know how to manipulate the situation. This man you are dating, knows how to make things turn around on his favor. He's one of those men who cheat.

If you seem to think that this guy is flawless, watch out. These egomaniacs have lived most of their dating life thinking that they can manipulate any woman. Be careful not to be a victim. Know if he is a player through these five signs that tell you he's a cheater.

He frequently says that he's not a player. He's overly defensive. He'll claim that his charms captivate a lot of women, but he only has eyes for you. He uses all the words to flatter you. He will make you feel that you are the only person on the world. But what you don't know is that he does this to every girl he dates. Is he a player? This is how you can tell if he really is.

Players flirt with other women even if you're around. Yes, this is their mastered skill. They use their eyes or even body language to flirt with other women. If you're not around, he'll do to other women what he's exactly doing to you. He'll sweep them off their feet just like how he made your knees weak. Even if you're together, he can't be stopped. But he'll do the flirting in a subtle way that even you could not notice.

Players could be identified through their phone habits. A cheater's phone habits could manifest in two ways. His phone rings or beeps nonstop. Or when he's around you, he'll most likely turn his phone off. And there would be times when you call him and you can't reach him for hours. Is he cheating on you? Yes, he could be with another girl during times when you can't contact him.

He lies even about small things. He can't help himself. Lying is like an impulse to him. He has been immune to it that he can't be truthful even in small things. And when you happen to confront him about this, he'll deny it.

He can't remember specific details about you. He goes out with a lot of women. The information is too much to handle that they're already mixed up. Is he a player? Definitely.




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