Tuesday, February 15, 2011

A Few Points To Resolve Relationship Issues

By Margret B. Walsh


There are times when you find yourself in conflict with someone you have a relationship with. It is very difficult to make up and find a common point where both of you can have an understanding. Here are some points for you to resolve relationship issues.

The more you argue the more difficult it will be to find a solution. Agree to reach a solution before everything goes out of hand and you decide to end the relationship altogether.

Dig inside your feelings. Map out the reason why you were upset in the first place. One of the main concerns why relationships fall out is because they are able to pinpoint the reason behind their emotions.

You can never have the thing that you want if you keep it to yourself. Learn when to talk to your partner about the things that you want or else you will always feel that you have been thrown out. Remember to keep him updated with the things that you need. Be it a little intimacy or more sex.

You have said your piece about where you want your relationship to go. Now it is time for you to create options on where you think it should go. Offer up a lot of ways for you to make your relationship work again.

Resolving issues should not be a one-person job. Always resolve issues together with your partner. Discuss things on how you can be together since a relationship works both ways.

If your first option turns out to be futile, then there are other options you can choose. Always exhaust all of your probable options before you call it quits.

We have been through a lot of hurtful experiences before and we are still here fighting. This only mean that we never give up in life. The same principle goes when it comes to love and relationships.




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