Monday, March 14, 2011

Tips To Break Free From The Pains Of Going Through A Breakup

By Brenda S. Phelps


Everyone is likely to go through a break up. No kidding you; breakups are painful. You may feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders at that time. Even when you feel lonely, remember that there are people around you who love you. Family and friends!

Even after undergoing a breakup ordeal, one should not remain tethered to that fate and stay all moody and emotional about it. Here are tricks you can use to ease the hurt.

If there is a difficult thing to do yet the all important thing, it is the part of accepting it all. It takes strength to swallow that. Once you do that, you see your life through different perspective. You will find that there is a lot of potential in accepting life so far and getting along.

You should be willing to learn all the time. This said, a break up must allow you to reflect and think about what interesting insight you gained from your previous relationship and see what improvements it can bring to the next possible relationship. It's like a compass.

There will come random bouts of self hatred. People find a lot of solace in blaming things they did or characters inherent to them. This is not what you should be thinking about right now. Avoid pointing fingers.

Since you are in the healing stage of the breakup, one of the things you will have to remove from your diet is constant feeding on curiosity! It is tempting to keep spying on him. You should grow beyond giving a kid a dollar to go eavesdrop on your ex at the park.

The journal and pen trick will help you get over a lot if you see the sense of it. It is uplifting to the soul to let out your emotions through writing down your thoughts. The burden lifted with time. You grow beyond animosity and hate.

Look up to greater things in your life on the horizon for you. There sure is something that you have always thought of doing but never knew when to give them a try. Now is the time so that you can take your mind off what you just went through.




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