Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Figuring out Young adults

By Arlene Li


Adolescents are budding grown ups who experience changes and face difficult challenges because they're at a time their lives where their horizon is being expanded; the building blocks of self esteem laid on the childhood stage becomes obvious at this point....although some teenagers might possibly face challenges directly, others probably won't because of a low self esteem.

Every person knows that confidence and self esteem are two essential human qualities which help individuals to throw themselves to the jungle of life and come out victorious; absence of those two traits can spell disaster for a person. Words have be known to bring about rifts in families and ruin the most loving of relationships; they are important tools in the growth and development of a child's self esteem that should be helpful to chip away rough edges not cause permanent injury.

A parent or parents who may have barely enough or no self esteem themselves are in the first place, poor role models for their children and can barely teach their kids about self esteem; being a parent, exercising what you preach must be your motto...it helps your child grow more maturely.Parents have a duty to their kids to make them feel good about themselves to the degree they become successful individuals of the society...any endeavor to shelve this responsibility can cause an useless dysfunctional adult who may cause more harm than good in the the community.|It is important that throughout developing your child's self esteem, you strike an equilibrium between providing them with too much liberty to act and reining them into too securely....either action bodes ill for your kids.

The best gift you could ever give your child is to believe in his/her and his/her abilities or talents because eventually, that confidence will help your child carve out a definite identity for his or herself.

Giving your child a sense of self worth about his/herself ultimately helps the child as he/she advances on in years and incorporates other people other than his parents into his/her social circle.




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