Anybody who has gone through a breakup knows that handling them really is no easy task. For those who want their ex back there are quite a number of things that you have to do so as to win them over back into a relationship. One of these things unfortunately is not contacting them.
Yes it may sound weird and a lot of people who have just broken up will discount it because they don't see the bigger picture.
This rule of not contacting your ex after a break up tends to be more difficult among those couples that used to already live together or saw each other on a daily basis.
You have to do everything in your might to make sure that you do not pick up that phone no matter what. This is a time that you want your ex to really feel bad about your absence and to also give them the time to think about all the things they have to sort out. Contacting them will only aggravate things.
If you do not give the rule any time then you should not expect to see any results worth writing home about. Contacting your ex immediately with pleas of getting back together will just make you come across as a pathetic and desperate person.
If you should happen to be spotted by your ex or one of her friends, then all the better. This will make her want to come back to you even faster because she sees that if she waits to long you will easily move on with your life without her.
The next thing that will happen is a call from your ex with the proposal that you two have made a terrible mistake in breaking up and should patch things up.
Only then will you come to appreciate the fact that the no contact rule really does make a big difference.
Yes it may sound weird and a lot of people who have just broken up will discount it because they don't see the bigger picture.
This rule of not contacting your ex after a break up tends to be more difficult among those couples that used to already live together or saw each other on a daily basis.
You have to do everything in your might to make sure that you do not pick up that phone no matter what. This is a time that you want your ex to really feel bad about your absence and to also give them the time to think about all the things they have to sort out. Contacting them will only aggravate things.
If you do not give the rule any time then you should not expect to see any results worth writing home about. Contacting your ex immediately with pleas of getting back together will just make you come across as a pathetic and desperate person.
If you should happen to be spotted by your ex or one of her friends, then all the better. This will make her want to come back to you even faster because she sees that if she waits to long you will easily move on with your life without her.
The next thing that will happen is a call from your ex with the proposal that you two have made a terrible mistake in breaking up and should patch things up.
Only then will you come to appreciate the fact that the no contact rule really does make a big difference.
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