Saturday, October 8, 2011

Relationship Advice For Men-On-How To Keep Your Girlfriend

By David Robert


Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships. Lauryn Hill

Is your girlfriend important to you? Do you love her? Why do you really love her? Do you get mad at her and blame her for anything?

To many times we blame the person that we are involved with-instead of taking responsibility for ourselves. It is very easy to point the finger in order to justify ourselves-but is that really right?

When you make a choice that you love your girlfriend-she will know it. Is she your best friend? Will you go out of your way for her? It takes a decision to walk in love-,and love is not sex.

Your relationship with your girlfriend is not about you-it is about her. How do you treat her? Do you really know her? Treating her with respect and she will give you respect. Love her for who she is-not for what she does for you, and she will love you even more.

Expressing your love to your girlfriend is important. It takes more than just telling her that you love her-once in a while . and a while. Well, "I bought her gifts-In fact I gave her a sewing machine just last week."

You need to tell your sweetheart that you"love her often." Well, "I love her and we never argue?" Maybe you never talk with each other-maybe you think everything is OK. Do not take her for granted!

You you do not talk with her then you will lose her. One day when you see her-,she says to you that you and her need to talk-then you wonder what happen to you both.

But-"I have a hard time telling her I love her." Well-if you want your relationship to change and get better-then you need to change.

A woman knows when you are speaking from your heart or giving her lip service. Compliment her and tell her that you love her and do not give her lip service, or you will blow it.

Suddenly, she wants to talk with you, and you are reading a magazine or a newspaper. You tell her-"Not Now" you are in trouble my friend and do not try to sweet talk her later.

Do you know what she likes and does not like about you? Do you know the number one complaint women have about men?

When I want to talk with Him, he is starring into space and says he is listening-but cannot remember what I said.

He seems to never find the time for what i need help in. He is constantly busy in some kind of project.

He says he hears me, but he stares into space when I am talking with him.

He talks to me in a very rough manner-why come he cannot talk nice?

The only time he talks to me nice is when he wants, he sexual needs taken care of.

When I ask him a question he gets mad at me-what did I do wrong?

Can you sit down and talk with each other like human beings. When you are only thinking of yourself all the time-your girlfriend can feel that negativity.

Work harder on your own self than you do your job. How can you be the best? What changes can you make?

If you want her to respect you, then do not try to take it from her but be willing to give respect first. Give her real love and she will love you. Give kindness and she will be kind to you. You will get back what you have put out first.

Being wise is important. Bring out problems to one another and work on them together. Do not let let your resentment simmer like boiling water and then you loose it with her.

Relationship building should be your number one priority with each other. Stop trying to compete with her and she with you-what do you have to prove any ways?

If you need relationship advice for men, then seek out good help in that area. You can be her best man-her dream man of her life.




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