Saturday, October 15, 2011

Learn What to Do If Your Partner Barely Gives Attention

By Sarah Scott


As a married woman, you might have already understand that the fire and flames in your relationship isn't going to blaze as high as it did when you and your partner started to date. The fire in your relationship will go down a little bit but the flames will always be there. So , don't worry if your relationship isn't blazing with passion as it used to.

If you miss how the spark and attraction you and your man used to have, you need to take a deeper look at what is really going on. Rather than giving you surface level advice-- like spicing up your sex life or going on more dates, you are going to have to get to the root of the the issue when it comes to your relationship issues. As you most likely already know , painting green leaves on a dying tree is not going to work, so the advice you see all over the internet, "3 tricks to win your partner back" isn't going to work.

Nonetheless what you can do is work on the sole thing you have control of and that's yourself. You see, most times when a woman needs her husband's attention and love, it is due to the fact she looking outside of herself for happiness. You cannot demand love from your husband, you've got to attract love from your partner. Tell me, how do you feel about yourself now? Are you confident and happy about yourself these days?

When life gets hard, it's natural our for confidence and self-esteem to go down a bit. That is where you've got to change your attitude and begin to love yourself again. There's a massive difference for wanting your other half's love and needing it. Your partner can instantly see the difference too. When you want your husband's love, you are putting stress on him to be responsible for your contentment. Unfortunately, when someone needs you to do or be something, it's a lot of pressure and the natural way to react to that pressure is to withdraw.

So rather than focusing on getting your spouse's attention, try focusing on yourself. Do something that causes you to feel good on the inside and outside. When you begin to feel good about yourself, you're naturally radiant. Men loves confident and glowing women. Can you say you're a person with glow now? If not, some heavy soul searching and a boost of confidence will enormously help to attract your man back to you. Remember, if you want happiness and love in your life, you need to begin your search looking from the inside out.

Now, if you made your spouse angry for any reason and he won't forgive you, than the one thing you can do if you haven't already, is sincerely say sorry and wait for him to forgive you. It might take a little time for him to forgive, but if you have shown him through your actions and words that you are truly sorry for what you have done, that's all you are able to do. Make sure you are excellent with your words and action to help attract your husband back. If you want to cultivate and strengthen your relationship, this relationship advice

will save your marriage.

What if I just can't fix my marriage?

I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make their heart sing for you again you'll need to

learn a single method that works amazingly well.




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