Sunday, July 6, 2008

Tips On Divorce Filing - Things To Consider

By A R Thompson

When going through the process of filing for divorce it can be an extremely painful experience for all those involved. However by knowing what to expect throughout from first filing to the divorce being completed can make it much easier to deal with. In this article we provide a number of tips on divorce filing which you may find useful in helping to understand the whole process a lot better.

1. Know Your Rights - It is vital that you know exactly what your rights are and have an equal say in what happens with the assets that you and your partner have accumulated over the years. In addition, you need to know exactly what your rights are with regards to access to see your children during the divorce process and once it has completed. If you do not know, exactly what your rights are then you should find out as much as possible before you actually proceed with filing for divorce.

2. Understand The Divorce Process - It does not matter whether you are just thinking about or actually filing for divorce you should have a clear understand of how the divorce process works. So spend a little time finding out the difference between the two types of divorce processes that take place.

These are "Absolute" and "Limited" and the first type will take much longer to complete and ends up with the couple being completely free from their partner and able to marry again if they so wish. Whilst the Limited Divorce is rather a legal separation where the couple can live separate lives but does not allow the opportunity for them to remarry if they so wish. Many couples initially go down the Limited Divorce route in order to see if they really do want to divorce for good.

3. Find The Best Lawyer - As previously mentioned the whole process of filing for divorce is very stressful and painful. So to avoid making a bad situation much worse then employ a lawyer who understands divorce laws fully. It is best in this situation to employ a lawyer who specifically deals in divorce matters and will know exactly what your rights are with regards to assets and any matters relating to children you may have with your partner.

4. Know The Costs - Before you go with any particular lawyer when filing for divorce you should speak to several first. Ask them to provide you with details of all the kinds of charges and fees that you will be expected to pay during the whole process. If at any stage after choosing your lawyer you are unsure of what the costs are that you have been charged for then talk to them immediately. It is important that you know exactly where you stand as money is going to be tight for sometime afterwards and you do not want to be hit with any unexpected charges.

5. Understand The Terms Of Your Divorce Settlement - Yes you could leave it up to your lawyer to agree all terms of the divorce settlement, but a good lawyer will make sure that you know what it is you are agreeing to. If at any stage during the proceedings you find it difficult to understand the terms or do not like the terms that have been negotiated with your partner's lawyers then immediately talk to your own. Also before you sign anything read carefully through the divorce settlement agreement and ask any questions that you may have and gain clarification.

The tips which have been provided above will hopefully help you to understand the process much better when filing for divorce. As well as these tips on divorce filing it is vital that you remain in regular contact with your lawyer and if at any stage you are having problems during the whole process talk to them immediately.

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