Have you grown tired of trying to fix your marriage? Are you losing hope that your husband will ever come back to you? Discover the secrets that can renew your hope and make love grow in your own heart and your ex's before it is too late!
You are angry and upset and you are about to lose all hope that you will ever be able to save your marriage and get your husband back. This has to the most painful part of actually getting him back and I want to help you through this nasty bit of business and give you the confidence and hope that you are going to need if you are determined to get your husband back. If you really do want him back then you need to read on and find out how you can not only win him back but have him fall in love with you the way that you always dreamed of.
If you're anything like me, you feel tossed about by your emotions and you waver from being sure one moment that he will come back to you and then in tears the next moment that he is gone forever. You women's intuition might tell you one moment that he still loves you and then the next that this is all but a lie. While our women's intuition might be a keen and powerful tool, it can be difficult at times to differentiate between what is real and what feelings are motivated by our own fear. That is where logic might help you to realize that, if played correctly, you husband's heart can be yours again.
You might think that you are thinking logically and that you're being practical but chances are you are fearful and just trying to keep yourself from being disappointed again. Sitting down and thinking things through with a man's perspective in mind can bring great revelations and help you to know in your heart that there is hope and that you can pull this off. You can avoid the divorce and get him back. Think about how your husband has been acting since the split. Does he act or say that he doesn't love you anymore? Does he act like he just doesn't care? Is there anything that you have done to maybe help him along or make him feel this way? How could the man that loved you so deeply and who promised to love you forever turn against you this way?
The truth is that after a breakup, emotions and feelings are all out of whack. What you are seeing in your husband is probably the exact opposite of what you are feeling or doing. You are trying with everything that you have to save your marriage and make everything right and your husband seems to be working his equally as hard to destroy everything that you hold dear and true. He has no desire to get back together or even talk about the possibility. He is doing the exact opposite of what you want just like a bad child who is rebelling against his parents. Keep in mind though that the love that he once showed you quite freely is still there in his heart. It is only covered over by fear, anger and stubbornness. The love that you shared didn't go anywhere. It is still there and it is up to you when you want him to see it again. You could let time do the dirty work and eventually he will live to regret his decision to leave you. Or you could help things along by learning how to play the game and bring those emotions out in him in a very short period of time.
You might struggle with your own heart and wonder if what you had was really love. You might wonder how the man who loved you so much could leave you like this. You might wonder if he ever loved you at all or if it was all just a lie. Has the stress from the breakup caused all of these negative emotions that you are seeing in him or his this how he really feels? Well, you know that men are not very good with emotions and most men, your husband included, tend to react instead of interact and think about how they feel. Most men show only a few emotions and the ones that you are seeing right now are anger and defensiveness. And since the breakup there is a very good chance that his trigger is very easy to pull and everything is magnified one hundred times over. So, everything that you do is coming under great scrutiny and your husband is reacting more than he is thinking and feeling. Try not to hold this against him.
If you want true solace and wish to know the truth about what lies within his heart then you need to look to your past. Close your eyes and think of a time when you knew without a doubt that he was crazy about you. What there a time when you looked at him and you knew without a doubt that you were loved? Did he do things for you to prove his love for you? If you can answer yes to any of these questions then please hang on to those memories during tough times and know in your heart that it is indeed possible to make your husband love you like that again... and more!
Are You Ready To Fight For Your Love? - While you might be more of a lover than a fighter, this kind of fighting might determine the entire outcome and direction of your life. What is at stake touches on every aspect of your life from here on out including financial, emotional and romantic aspects of your life. Doing what needs to be done to save your marriage and get your husband back means no holds barred, cage match tactics if need be. Of course, we are talking about emotionally and figuratively. There might be times when you want to just quit and let your husband walk away but remember that forever is a very long time.
You might be tempted to want to ask him to go to counseling or a therapist with you but I will caution against this at the moment. You see, right now he has no desire to save the marriage and confronting him with something that he just doesn't want is going to be a waste of your time and effort and it might even hurt things in the long run. If you want to get him back you need to make him feel something for you again. He is going to have to start to fall in love with you again and have some sort of connection with you again. Without that you are simply dragging a stubborn mule to counseling. You might think that it is impossible to make him want you and your relationship again but it is possible. And, no, I'm not talking about seducing him. That method will also end poorly for you and make it more difficult for you to get him back in the long run.
To get him to fall for you again you are going to have to appeal to his male emotions. You are going to have to push him emotionally and bring out that passion, that desire, that spark and that connection that brought you together in the first place. I know that it is a little confusing but it is a simple matter of balancing things back out to get him to come out from behind that wall that he has built around himself. Knowing how your husband thinks and what makes him tick is key in bringing these emotions back out in him in this particular situation. Knowing how to move him emotionally as a man is essential in making him feel the pull and the desire that will lead to that connection and love that will make him want you so badly that he will feel as if he simply cannot live without you.
You are angry and upset and you are about to lose all hope that you will ever be able to save your marriage and get your husband back. This has to the most painful part of actually getting him back and I want to help you through this nasty bit of business and give you the confidence and hope that you are going to need if you are determined to get your husband back. If you really do want him back then you need to read on and find out how you can not only win him back but have him fall in love with you the way that you always dreamed of.
If you're anything like me, you feel tossed about by your emotions and you waver from being sure one moment that he will come back to you and then in tears the next moment that he is gone forever. You women's intuition might tell you one moment that he still loves you and then the next that this is all but a lie. While our women's intuition might be a keen and powerful tool, it can be difficult at times to differentiate between what is real and what feelings are motivated by our own fear. That is where logic might help you to realize that, if played correctly, you husband's heart can be yours again.
You might think that you are thinking logically and that you're being practical but chances are you are fearful and just trying to keep yourself from being disappointed again. Sitting down and thinking things through with a man's perspective in mind can bring great revelations and help you to know in your heart that there is hope and that you can pull this off. You can avoid the divorce and get him back. Think about how your husband has been acting since the split. Does he act or say that he doesn't love you anymore? Does he act like he just doesn't care? Is there anything that you have done to maybe help him along or make him feel this way? How could the man that loved you so deeply and who promised to love you forever turn against you this way?
The truth is that after a breakup, emotions and feelings are all out of whack. What you are seeing in your husband is probably the exact opposite of what you are feeling or doing. You are trying with everything that you have to save your marriage and make everything right and your husband seems to be working his equally as hard to destroy everything that you hold dear and true. He has no desire to get back together or even talk about the possibility. He is doing the exact opposite of what you want just like a bad child who is rebelling against his parents. Keep in mind though that the love that he once showed you quite freely is still there in his heart. It is only covered over by fear, anger and stubbornness. The love that you shared didn't go anywhere. It is still there and it is up to you when you want him to see it again. You could let time do the dirty work and eventually he will live to regret his decision to leave you. Or you could help things along by learning how to play the game and bring those emotions out in him in a very short period of time.
You might struggle with your own heart and wonder if what you had was really love. You might wonder how the man who loved you so much could leave you like this. You might wonder if he ever loved you at all or if it was all just a lie. Has the stress from the breakup caused all of these negative emotions that you are seeing in him or his this how he really feels? Well, you know that men are not very good with emotions and most men, your husband included, tend to react instead of interact and think about how they feel. Most men show only a few emotions and the ones that you are seeing right now are anger and defensiveness. And since the breakup there is a very good chance that his trigger is very easy to pull and everything is magnified one hundred times over. So, everything that you do is coming under great scrutiny and your husband is reacting more than he is thinking and feeling. Try not to hold this against him.
If you want true solace and wish to know the truth about what lies within his heart then you need to look to your past. Close your eyes and think of a time when you knew without a doubt that he was crazy about you. What there a time when you looked at him and you knew without a doubt that you were loved? Did he do things for you to prove his love for you? If you can answer yes to any of these questions then please hang on to those memories during tough times and know in your heart that it is indeed possible to make your husband love you like that again... and more!
Are You Ready To Fight For Your Love? - While you might be more of a lover than a fighter, this kind of fighting might determine the entire outcome and direction of your life. What is at stake touches on every aspect of your life from here on out including financial, emotional and romantic aspects of your life. Doing what needs to be done to save your marriage and get your husband back means no holds barred, cage match tactics if need be. Of course, we are talking about emotionally and figuratively. There might be times when you want to just quit and let your husband walk away but remember that forever is a very long time.
You might be tempted to want to ask him to go to counseling or a therapist with you but I will caution against this at the moment. You see, right now he has no desire to save the marriage and confronting him with something that he just doesn't want is going to be a waste of your time and effort and it might even hurt things in the long run. If you want to get him back you need to make him feel something for you again. He is going to have to start to fall in love with you again and have some sort of connection with you again. Without that you are simply dragging a stubborn mule to counseling. You might think that it is impossible to make him want you and your relationship again but it is possible. And, no, I'm not talking about seducing him. That method will also end poorly for you and make it more difficult for you to get him back in the long run.
To get him to fall for you again you are going to have to appeal to his male emotions. You are going to have to push him emotionally and bring out that passion, that desire, that spark and that connection that brought you together in the first place. I know that it is a little confusing but it is a simple matter of balancing things back out to get him to come out from behind that wall that he has built around himself. Knowing how your husband thinks and what makes him tick is key in bringing these emotions back out in him in this particular situation. Knowing how to move him emotionally as a man is essential in making him feel the pull and the desire that will lead to that connection and love that will make him want you so badly that he will feel as if he simply cannot live without you.
About the Author:
If you are at a total loss for what to say or what to do to get your husband back, I found that the methods in Matt Huston Get Him Back helped to turn my ex around very quickly. While these methods might be a little unorthodox and underhanded, I knew that I had to do what I had to do what was necessary to get him back.
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