Monday, August 8, 2011

Ways to Get Her Back

By Dmitry Vasenyov


You have had enough time to go through the whole breakup episode and now the only thought that seems to be occupying your mind is how to get her back. There is good news for you - no matter how much time back the split happened and even if she is dating someone else, you still have a lot of chances to win her back.

Probably some of your friends recommend you to date as many women as you can just to make her jealous. Remember that this does not work and never will. And even if she gets back with you, it will be for a short period of time, followed by another painful breakup.

Rather than doing different crazy things, you need to think about how to build happier and stronger relationships. Probably it is time to become more mature and responsible.

Irrespective of what triggered the breakup, you both need to have contributed your share of mistakes. Probably it was difficult to admit your fault in the midst of emotional heat, however as you both cooled down the picture became clearer. Most likely she has realized and confessed that she was not always right.

Finding the point where your relationship went downhill is the most important thing. Probably you will know how to get her back the moment you discover the real reason behind your breakup. You have to understand that blaming yourself in everything is not a great idea. You just have to try and learn on your own mistakes, avoiding them in future.

Aside from this, you have to think about the beginning of your relationship - how and why you got attracted to each other. Frankly speaking, you are the same person she once fell in love with. And nothing stops you from re-creating the magic that brought you together. The desire to re-live those moments you both used to share and belief that you can bring that stage of your relationship back is exactly what you have to make her feel.




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