Monday, August 1, 2011

A Few Reasons Why Men Leave Relationships

By David Day


Most women spend their entire lives trying to search for a way to keep their man in their current relationship. However, for the women that spend a larger part of their day trying to convince their mates to stay with them, it is important to consider why men leave relationships in the first place.

Every human being that resides in the world today has different thought patterns than the other. Therefore, it can be difficult to gauge an entire group of people, because certain people have certain reasons why they may choose to cease their current relationship arrangement. For the most part, one of the main reasons why a male would consider leaving his partner is because he is not happy with the current arrangement that he has found himself in.

People that are unhappy in a relationship will do their best to try to vacate the relationship as quickly as they possibly can. If both parties cannot work together in order to make their relationship lasts, there is no point in the parties remaining together. It is better to be alone, then to be miserable.

One problem that most women tend to have is they believe that they can change their mate, thus turning them into the person that they want them to be. For example, there are a lot of women that will convince themselves that their mate would be perfect if he were willing to make a few subtle changes. Some males take change to heart, and are actually pleased with the person that they are. Therefore, this type of situation could make a male decide to vacate his current relationship.

Most males do not want to hear their mate complaining about their bad habits. Instead, they want to be accepted for the person that they are and loved for their bad traits. Women that believe that they can alter a male's personality will end up being left alone, without a mate to run to.

Most men want their mates to be independent. Even though males love when their mates ask for their help, they do not want to have to turn into a father figure to their mate. In fact, having to take on the responsibility of caring for another person that is also an adult can make a male consider retreating from his current arrangement.

Men do not want to remain in a relationship with a woman that relies on them for everything. In fact, modern day males will admit that one of the biggest turn-ons for them is a woman that is independent, and knows what they want out of life. There are some males that will vacate a relationship if they are not sexually attracted to their mate. Women that let themselves go whenever they enter into a relationship, have a difficult time keeping a mate.




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