Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Cheating in In Marriage Could End In Divorce

By Tony Kipp


Not straying away in partnerships would seem to be a thing of the past if you believe the media reports. More folk appear to be accepting or forgiving it with their partners just because of how it enters our lives on a daily basis. The Net has made cheating in illicit meetings particularly easy and engaging.

Considering the resentment, heartbreak and the horrible likelihood of passing on an STD to a person you care for should make cheating in a long term relationship a deal killer. However most women and men who enter into love affairs believe that they will never get caught or it will not happen to them.

In reality, it is a crap shoot. Probabilities are you'll get caught one way or another. If you are considering cheating on a partner, first consider what your present relationship means to you and if you're ready to lose it for keeps.

Ladies are quickly closing the gap between the percentage of men and women cheating outside a relationship. The Web makes it straightforward to find a person who is prepared and willing to get involved in an affair.

The Web has been the single biggest promoter in men and women having affairs outside a relationship. Going to a chat-room in a web dating site or 'strictly for sex ' site is captivating and motivating to go even farther with your thoughts of cheating.

Ladies and men in relationships may have completely different ideas about what cheating really is. An irritated clash might occur if a partner were to give the 'once over' to a beautiful girl or the 'hot body ' on a man when taking a walk or having dinner out.

Others might consider going to strip clubs, dreams about others, taking a look at porno, have lunch or dinner or kissing another on the lips as cheating. It's a smart idea to have a long talk with your partner as regards what constitutes 'cheating ' in his or her mind.

Compromises are possible , but consider your partner's feelings and if something you are doing makes him uncomfortable, quit doing it if you'd like to continue the relationship.

Think long and hard about the boundaries you set for yourself and those that you'll accept in your companion. If online cybersex is positively taboo, make it obvious to your companion and then don't back down. It may mean this person isn't your soul-mate after all , but it is better to find out sooner than later .

Does infidelity have to mean divorce? Not necessarily no but if you want an open relationship situation, don't develop one with someone who has totally opposite views on what a relationship should be. Be open and honest initially and you'll avoid a tragedy of massive proportions.

Today, most individuals consider cheating in a relationship a deal ender, but as morales and values change due to the media and especially the Net, those perspectives are changing.




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