If you feel weird or strange about talking to friends or family about getting your boyfriend back then you are pretty normal. If you are tired of the same old advice or suggestions that you move on, find someone new, let him go, let him be free and wait for him to come back to you then you are pretty normal. Are you searching for some encouragement and some real advice instead of the same old so called "reality check" that your friends and family are trying to give you when you actually need some support?
For me, there were times exactly like this. I went through much of what you are probably going through right now. I would look for the encouragement of close friends and I would tell them about how much I loved my man and that I wanted to get him back. They might listen to me for a while but as soon as I had a down moment or a moment of doubt they would push me to forget about ever getting back together with him. They would tell me that I was obsessing about him and that they were worried about me.
Of course, there is that line but loving someone that isn't loving you back does not mean that you are obsessed over them. I know that I didn't do anything out of the ordinary and I didn't think that there was any reason why I should feel bad about wanting to get back together with my ex. I love him. We had great chemistry together and some really good times. Who wouldn't want that back? So, why should you feel strange about wanting to get back together with your ex again?
Even so, at this point you would probably be better of keeping your plans and your desires about your ex to yourself. Even thought you might want someone to talk to or bounce ideas and thoughts off of, right now it might be best just to keep your mouth shut about it. After all, if your ex knows that you still want to get back together with him it is only going to help him to feel better about himself. He will feel that he must be something super wonderful if you still want him in the wake of your breakup. In addition, anything that you share with your friends or family has a chance of getting back to him him if he starts digging for information once he starts to feel like you're slipping away. This will be counterproductive to your desire to get him back and right now it is time for you to focus on you and getting you back in form for actually geting him back.
So, starting today, spend some time doing the things that are going to help you to get him back. Begin to focus on the good and not the bad. Daydream about what it will be like to be held in his arms once again and to hear those three words you long to hear. Visualize the moment when you know that he is falling for you again and how much fun it will be to feel that connection and passion welling up inside you again. How will it feel in your chest when you know that you've got him back? Make it as real as possible for yourself and be happy again.
If you begin to feel weird about this then just push those emotions aside and remember that this is your life and your dreams. You can make your life anything you want it to be. You can think about him never being with you again or you can think about how wonderful it is going to be to have him fall for you all over again. The choice is up to you but no matter what you think, this will be the path that your life will take. Make your dreams about you and him instead of him and another woman and start your journey towards getting him back starting today. Starting right now you can begin doing what it will take to get him back
For me, there were times exactly like this. I went through much of what you are probably going through right now. I would look for the encouragement of close friends and I would tell them about how much I loved my man and that I wanted to get him back. They might listen to me for a while but as soon as I had a down moment or a moment of doubt they would push me to forget about ever getting back together with him. They would tell me that I was obsessing about him and that they were worried about me.
Of course, there is that line but loving someone that isn't loving you back does not mean that you are obsessed over them. I know that I didn't do anything out of the ordinary and I didn't think that there was any reason why I should feel bad about wanting to get back together with my ex. I love him. We had great chemistry together and some really good times. Who wouldn't want that back? So, why should you feel strange about wanting to get back together with your ex again?
Even so, at this point you would probably be better of keeping your plans and your desires about your ex to yourself. Even thought you might want someone to talk to or bounce ideas and thoughts off of, right now it might be best just to keep your mouth shut about it. After all, if your ex knows that you still want to get back together with him it is only going to help him to feel better about himself. He will feel that he must be something super wonderful if you still want him in the wake of your breakup. In addition, anything that you share with your friends or family has a chance of getting back to him him if he starts digging for information once he starts to feel like you're slipping away. This will be counterproductive to your desire to get him back and right now it is time for you to focus on you and getting you back in form for actually geting him back.
So, starting today, spend some time doing the things that are going to help you to get him back. Begin to focus on the good and not the bad. Daydream about what it will be like to be held in his arms once again and to hear those three words you long to hear. Visualize the moment when you know that he is falling for you again and how much fun it will be to feel that connection and passion welling up inside you again. How will it feel in your chest when you know that you've got him back? Make it as real as possible for yourself and be happy again.
If you begin to feel weird about this then just push those emotions aside and remember that this is your life and your dreams. You can make your life anything you want it to be. You can think about him never being with you again or you can think about how wonderful it is going to be to have him fall for you all over again. The choice is up to you but no matter what you think, this will be the path that your life will take. Make your dreams about you and him instead of him and another woman and start your journey towards getting him back starting today. Starting right now you can begin doing what it will take to get him back
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