The problem arises because for most people they really are not sure why the relationship ended in the first place so all of the letters, texting and phone calls will turn out to be wasted energy. Women for example, are some emotional people. Sometimes they may not even understand why they feel the way they do that lead to the break up in the first place. That's why I feel that it is futile to waste so much time and energy on finding out "what went wrong" in your relationship.
In my own life, the first and foremost strategy I do in trying to get back with my ex girlfriend is to take a break from the relationship and get my head right emotionally and psychologically. I have a ton of energy that I was able to put in other things to keep my mind off of the problem and work on ME.
Such as:
1. Learning pick up strategies. 2. Going on vacation. 3. Meet new people. 4. Make more money.
You need to take some time off and get things right in your mind and that is the bottom line. I absolutely felt refreshed and regenerated after taking a couple of months off for myself. It put me in a good state of mind and it will do the same for you.
Given a couple of months will give you a better idea what direction you want to go with your ex because taking a step back like this and getting a perspective on relationships in general will help you change the way you think and your life surrounding this or other relationships.
The question of whether or not you want to be with that same person will come up and you need to address the possibility of getting back with them or moving on to greener pastures. Accordingly, if you decide to try and get back together with you ex you will need to figure out how they feel about you.
Here is a chance that you can have if you play your card right? Mess this up, then forget about it, you might as well fend someone else. You need a plan not emotions. Here is the plan.
Be a little distant, mysterious and super casual about the relationship. Almost like you don't care either way if you are with her or not. This will drive her nuts because she will start wondering why you are so OK without her. Why you seem to be doing well without her. At this point is where she will start to rethink your past relationship and wonder if a mistake was made in breaking up with you.
Be cool and don't over analyze things too much. If it meant to be it will be. Trying to get your ex back may take a little time, be patient work your plan. You will realize and know if things are meant to be by following this approach, pay attention to the signs.
Good Luck Dub Green
In my own life, the first and foremost strategy I do in trying to get back with my ex girlfriend is to take a break from the relationship and get my head right emotionally and psychologically. I have a ton of energy that I was able to put in other things to keep my mind off of the problem and work on ME.
Such as:
1. Learning pick up strategies. 2. Going on vacation. 3. Meet new people. 4. Make more money.
You need to take some time off and get things right in your mind and that is the bottom line. I absolutely felt refreshed and regenerated after taking a couple of months off for myself. It put me in a good state of mind and it will do the same for you.
Given a couple of months will give you a better idea what direction you want to go with your ex because taking a step back like this and getting a perspective on relationships in general will help you change the way you think and your life surrounding this or other relationships.
The question of whether or not you want to be with that same person will come up and you need to address the possibility of getting back with them or moving on to greener pastures. Accordingly, if you decide to try and get back together with you ex you will need to figure out how they feel about you.
Here is a chance that you can have if you play your card right? Mess this up, then forget about it, you might as well fend someone else. You need a plan not emotions. Here is the plan.
Be a little distant, mysterious and super casual about the relationship. Almost like you don't care either way if you are with her or not. This will drive her nuts because she will start wondering why you are so OK without her. Why you seem to be doing well without her. At this point is where she will start to rethink your past relationship and wonder if a mistake was made in breaking up with you.
Be cool and don't over analyze things too much. If it meant to be it will be. Trying to get your ex back may take a little time, be patient work your plan. You will realize and know if things are meant to be by following this approach, pay attention to the signs.
Good Luck Dub Green
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