Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Tips On Divorce Filing - Things To Consider

By A R Thompson

Along with moving home and getting married another thing which can put a large amount of strain on people today is when they choose to file for divorce. However if you are able to understand what is involved when it comes to filing for divorce you will better be able to cope with the process itself. Below we provide some tips on divorce filing which you should consider if you find that you have no other options open to you and your marriage has failed.

1. Know Your Rights - It is vital that you know exactly what your rights are and have an equal say in what happens with the assets that you and your partner have accumulated over the years. In addition, you need to know exactly what your rights are with regards to access to see your children during the divorce process and once it has completed. If you do not know, exactly what your rights are then you should find out as much as possible before you actually proceed with filing for divorce.

2. Understand The Divorce Process - It does not matter whether you are just thinking about or actually filing for divorce you should have a clear understand of how the divorce process works. So spend a little time finding out the difference between the two types of divorce processes that take place.

Today when it comes to filing for divorce you have a choice between going for an "Absolute Divorce" or a "Limited Divorce". With the absolute process this takes some considerable time to complete, but at the end the couple in question are once again single people and have the right to marry again in the future. As for those who choose to use the limited divorce process although they are now leading separate lives they do not have the right to marry another. Some couples prefer to use this process as a way of trying to see if they can fix the problems they are facing before making their divorce final and absolute.

3. Get The Best Lawyer You Can - Going through the process of divorce is extremely painful and stressful and can be made far worse if the person uses a lawyer who has no understanding of the process. Look for those lawyers who will not charge excessively high fees and who understands all the important issues regarding division of assets and matters relating to the children. If you are able to then employ, a lawyer who specifically deals in divorce matters.

4. Get A Break Down Of Their Costs - Before you actually go with any particular lawyer ask them to provide you with a approximation of what the whole divorce process is likely to cost you. Ask them to explain their fees in relation to phone calls, meetings and letters that they may need to write. Remember they are working for you and money is going to be an issue at this time so you do not want to be faced with any unexpected or untoward expenses at the end when the divorce has been finalized.

5. Know The Terms Of Your Divorce - Yes you have employed a good lawyer to deal on your behalf with your divorce proceedings, but it is still important that you understand all the terms of it. Therefore if at any stage during the proceedings you are not sure what a particular agreement means that talk to your lawyer before you sign off on it. Therefore read through all the paperwork that is sent through to you and understand everything that is discussed within it before signing it.

We have provided the above tips which you can then use if at any stage you are considering filing for divorce. These tips on divorce filing should hopefully help to make the whole process a little more stressful. But as well as keeping these points in mind you should also make sure that you stay in regular contact with the lawyer who is acting on your behalf during the whole divorce process.

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