Monday, June 23, 2008

Marriage Cannot Be Repaired - Tips On Divorce Filing

By A R Thompson

When going through the process of filing for divorce it can be an extremely painful experience for all those involved. However by knowing what to expect throughout from first filing to the divorce being completed can make it much easier to deal with. In this article we provide a number of tips on divorce filing which you may find useful in helping to understand the whole process a lot better.

1. Know Exactly What Your Rights Are? - A large number of couples when they choose to divorce do not really understand what there rights are with regard to the assets that they have accumulated. Also it is important that during the initial stages of divorce proceedings a person knows exactly what their rights are in relation to their children if they have any. Therefore before you actually start the process of filing for divorce you need to find out exactly what your rights are in relation to all aspects regarding both your children and assets.

2. Understand The Divorce Process - It does not matter whether you are just thinking about or actually filing for divorce you should have a clear understand of how the divorce process works. So spend a little time finding out the difference between the two types of divorce processes that take place.

There are two types of divorce processes which take place today, the "Absolute Divorce" or the "Limited Divorce". The first one takes far longer to complete but in the eyes of the law the couple are legally separated and have the right to remarry if they so wish. Where as the second type in the eyes of the law shows the couple to be legally separated but they are unable to remarry at this stage. Many couples will often choose to use the "Limited Divorce" process as a way of seeing if the problems can be fixed or not.

3. Get The Best Lawyer You Can - Going through the process of divorce is extremely painful and stressful and can be made far worse if the person uses a lawyer who has no understanding of the process. Look for those lawyers who will not charge excessively high fees and who understands all the important issues regarding division of assets and matters relating to the children. If you are able to then employ, a lawyer who specifically deals in divorce matters.

4. Costs - If you can speak to several lawyers and ask them to provide you with a breakdown of their costs so, you know exactly what they are going to be charging you. If in doubt at any stage whilst you are going through the process of filing for divorce regarding the costs charged then do not be afraid to ask, you do not want to end up with some surprises after everything has completed.

5. Understand The Terms Of Your Divorce - If at any stage you are unsure of any of the terms that are to be agreed in the divorce proceedings then ask your lawyer to clarify them for you. Also, as each portion of the divorce petition is handed to you for your signature do not sign it before you have read it even if your lawyer says everything is okay. So be careful as you fill out all the paperwork and that you understand all the terms being stated within the document.

We have provided the above tips which you can then use if at any stage you are considering filing for divorce. These tips on divorce filing should hopefully help to make the whole process a little more stressful. But as well as keeping these points in mind you should also make sure that you stay in regular contact with the lawyer who is acting on your behalf during the whole divorce process.

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